Podcasts by Topic: Conflict

Learning To Disagree Without Defensiveness With Mike Donehey | Ep. 549

4 Steps to Break the Fight Cycle with Anne Nelson | Ep. 535

Are You In a One-Sided Marriage? | Ep. 503

Have Intimacy or Have Control: You Can't Have Both with Special Guest Laura Doyle | Ep. 507

Worth Repeating: The Right / Wrong Way to Apologize

Worth Repeating: Hard Conversations - You Have to Have Them

Worth Repeating: Checking In So You Don’t Check Out - How To Prevent Conflict

Handling Your Spouse's Success | Ep. 398

Help! My Spouse Is So Critical | Ep. 399

Don't Be Stingy: Share Your Marriage Conflict With Friends | Ep. 415

Speaking Truth - When To Speak Up & When To Keep Quiet | Ep. 433

Building Trust | Ep. 439

Love Even When You Don't Feel Like It | Ep. 442

Top 8 Marriage Issues in 2019: #3 Values & Beliefs | Ep. 381

Secrets Husbands Don't Tell Their Wives | Ep. 363

Secrets Wives Don't Tell Their Husbands | Ep. 362

Fighting In Front Of The Kids: The Balance | Ep. 353

Fighting Styles | Ep. 352

Working It Out: Keys to Resolving Conflict | Ep. 336

Checking In So You Don’t Check Out: How To Prevent Conflict in Marriage | Ep. 335

Goodnights & Not Going To Bed Angry | Ep. 327

Ask Dr. Kim: How can I manage my anger better? | Ep. 305

Dealing with a Lazy Spouse | Ep. 304

HELP, My Spouse Loves Their Smartphone More Than Me | Ep. 296

Friends or Foes: Conflict Behavior | Ep. 287

Not Speaking Negatively About Your Spouse | Ep. 285

Ask Dr. Kim: How do we deal with the fact that we aren’t on the same page about public displays of affection? | Ep. 265

What Do You Do When You Can’t Trust Your Spouse? | Ep. 264

My Spouse Doesn’t Trust Me But I’m Being Honest | Ep. 262

Subtle Marriage Killers: Discounting Your Spouse’s Feelings & Opinions | Ep. 186

Subtle Marriage Killers: Not Considering Your Spouse | Ep. 184

Subtle Marriage Killers: Constant Complaining | Ep. 182

Subtle Marriage Killers: Busyness | Ep. 178

Ask Dr. Kim- Is it okay for grown men to play video games? | Ep. 177

Culture Traps: Career Over Family | Ep. 168

Dealing with Seasons of Waiting | Ep. 155

How To Keep This Distraction From Messing Up Your Marriage: Selfishness | Ep. 132

How To Keep This Distraction From Messing Up Your Marriage: Technology | Ep. 127

3 Ways to Stop Fighting Your Spouse- Way 3| Ep. 114

3 Ways to Stop Fighting Your Spouse- Way 2 | Ep. 113

3 Ways to Stop Fighting Your Spouse- Way 1 | Ep. 112

Stop Fighting Against Your Spouse & Start Fighting for Your Marriage | Ep. 111


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More Resources on Conflict in Marriage

The L.O.V.E. Your Way Through Marriage Course is a journey of connecting and learning all the necessary steps to start having healthy conflict. It’s a series of 4 sessions that will help you understand all the steps you need to have healthy conflict that will strengthen your marriage.

This Conflict Solving Survey is designed to help you approach the conflict conversation in a gentle way that doesn’t end in conflict! You will both fill out the survey and both have a chance to think through and assess your current conflict resolution. Or, if only one spouse uses this, there are actionable next steps that will help your marriage grow.

Whether you’re having toxic fighting in your marriage or you're just having the same fight over and over again, this 45-minute class will provide you with steps to learn how to fight fair in marriage and resolve conflict in a way that draws you closer to each other instead of tearing you apart.