We have been married seventeen years and my wife left me. She says she wants a divorce but I do not. I want our marriage to work. What should I do?
Dr. Kim: If your wife is willing, I would strongly suggest that you go to a Christian Counselor together. For the marriage to work, you both have to agree to work on it. If she is reluctant, it is important for you to show her grace and love and to be patient while at the same time praying for God to change her heart and to reconcile the marriage. Be patient and love her as God wants you to. Stay in until the door is completely closed. Don't give up!