Tried and True with Dana Che: What Biblical Marriages Teach Us About Ours Ep. 723

Marriage has a way of bringing our imperfections to the surface—and if we’re honest, that can feel frustrating, discouraging, and even isolating at times. But what if those struggles aren’t something to hide…what if they’re actually where God’s grace shows up most?

In this episode, we’re talking about how the imperfect stories we see throughout Scripture mirror our own and remind us that we’re not alone in the mess. We’ll unpack what it really looks like to build intimacy through vulnerability, why accepting each other’s brokenness matters more than having it all together, and how God’s unconditional love can shift the way you see yourself and your spouse.

If you’ve ever felt like your marriage falls short of the ideal, this conversation will remind you that God does some of His best work right in the middle of it.



Episode Highlights:

  1. The people in the Bible weren’t perfect—and that’s exactly where God’s grace shows up, just like it does in our marriages.

  2. Real intimacy doesn’t come from having it all together—it comes from being honest, letting your guard down, and choosing to love each other in the middle of the imperfections.

  3. When we truly understand God’s unconditional love, it changes everything.


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Quotes from this Episode:

I think we all have a tendency to let other people define who we are and we've got to keep our eyes on him."

I love that scripture in 1 John 4 all the time, you know, we love because He first loved us.- Dana Che

People have this idea that people in the Bible are saints… I really wanted to show the humanity of the people in scripture. Just like us they struggled with their faith.- Dana Che Williams

We can’t project the image of God if we are hiding. If we are pretending. -Dana Che

We are broken people who married broken people. - Dana Che

Even if people reject you, God does not reject you. - Dana Che Williams

We must get our worth and our value from the Lord.- Dana Che Williams

We have to be tethered in. We have to be tied together, so that when the storms of life or the gentle everyday situations of life, we aren’t disconnecting. 

I can’t be led by my feelings. I have to pray about my feelings. I have to submit my heart before the Lord.

He wants your marriage to work. He wants every marriage to work.- Dr. Kim

There is so much beauty in the suffering if we will just endure it. 


Time to Talk About it: 

  1. Do you feel like you play second fiddle to anything in your spouse’s life? Have you shared that with them?

  2. What routines and rhythms can we put in place to fight against the disconnect? 

  3. Are there things we did before marriage, that we have stopped doing? How can we bring that excitement back to our marriage today?

  4. What can the two of you be working on together to grow the Kingdom of God? (If you don’t have an answer, take the time now to go to the Lord in prayer)



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