One of the main concerns that I hear from singles is the frustration that comes with finding a mate. One of the main questions that I hear from singles is, “Where do I find a mate?”
From my perspective the best thing you can do is to ready yourself. Ask yourself these questions:
“What has happened in your past relationships?”
“What could you have done differently in those relationships?”
“Were you the one doing all the work to make the relationship work?”
“What were the good things in those relationships?”
“What were the bad things in those relationships?”
Take time to think through these questions and then write out your answers. Now you have a place to start.