The second thing that seems very important to most wives is that she has an ultimate commitment from you to her and the marriage. She needs to know deep in her heart without any doubt that you are committed to her - no matter what.
What shows commitment? The best answers will come from our wives because they know what it means to them. Here are some suggestions though. As husbands, we never need to talk about other women - their look, their bodies. Our wives need to know our commitment is to them and that we will not stray in thoughts or actions.
Commitment and trust can really go hand in hand. If your wife knows you are committed to her today, do everything you can do to honor that. If commitment has been tarnished, do whatever you can do to show that from this day forward you are all in - totally committed to her and the marriage.
Wives, let your husband know how much you appreciate his commitment to you. If he asks you for ways to strengthen this area of marriage, share specific things that would be meaningful to you.