Question: My fiance has often shown he doesn't care about my feelings yet tells me he loves me. this just pushes me away..what do u think i should do?
Dr. Kim: The words that we say must match up with our actions, our body language, and our tone of voice. When they do not it is hard to believe that the person saying them is being truthful. I think it is very important to get this resolved before you go into marriage. You may need the help of a Christian counselor or pastor. Thanks for your question.
Question: What do you do when your ex-husband of only 3 days after the divorce wants to date u?
Dr. Kim: Be very careful. Since I do not know the details of your marriage or divorce, it is hard to say much more. Do not let it be your ‘reunion’ be motivated by sex. Bottom line: To make your marriage work, you both will have to make changes, probably go to counseling, and have a strong commitment to work through your issues. If you both can commit to this, then go for it.